Summer Reading Challenge

Summer Reading Challenge

I’m not a big marbles jar / sticker chart sort of mom… however, I think they’re great for certain seasons. Potty training, was the first time we tried a sticker chart. Then there was the brotherly love chart which worked like a charm to inspire kindness between our three preschool aged kids. But, for the most part, I’ve wanted the boys to learn to do right without the bride of a sticker or a marble. That said, now that they are getting older, reward charts are making an annual summertime appearance in our home, and this time our prize is money!   Let me preface this post by confessing that I believe parenting is a lot like throwing spaghetti at the wall and seeing what sticks! What sticks for one family, may not stick to the kitchen walls in another family’s home. Same is true from kid to kid. But that’s part of the treasure hunt we’re on. We’re figuring this out as we go, and what works for me may not be right for another. That’s one of the reasons why I appreciate hearing what other moms and dads are doing when it comes to allowances and chores, family devotions and disciplining techniques. I’m always on the lookout for inspiration and trust that you are too.   And with that brief introduction, let me tell you how we incentive our three sons – not with stickers or marbles or matchbox cars now that they are older, but with cold, hard cash. Let’s talk money Before I tell you the specifics of their summertime reading challenge, I’ve got to confess that we reward our young men with money...
Our Favorite Boy Movies of All Time

Our Favorite Boy Movies of All Time

My husband was raised on a steady diet of classic rock (think Roy Orbison and Neil Young) and classic films (John Wayne and Gary Cooper.) When I birthed our third son, something was born in my husband’s boy-loving heart… a passion to share his favorite music and movies with his sons. There’s no better time to crank up the music than poolside in the summertime. Likewise, when the afternoon sun wears the kids out, and it’s time for a break, a good movie in an air-conditioned room is the perfect treat! And so I bring you, a list of our favorite movies to enjoy this summer!    This post is part of our Summertime Series: BOYS!  Top twenty classic film favorites (curated by my husband) 20 – Treasure Island 19 – The Alamo (John Wayne) 18 – McLintock (John Wayne) 17 – North to Alaska (John Wayne) 16 – High Noon (Gary Cooper & Grace Kelly) 15 – Beau Geste (Gary Cooper) 14 – The Quiet Man (John Wayne) 13 – Chariots of Fire 12 – The Great Escape (Steve McQueen) 11 – Ben Hur (with Charleton Heston) 10 – The Man from Snowy River 9 – True Grit (with John Wayne) 8 – Shane (Alan Ladd) 7 – Seahawk (Errol Flynn) 6 – Captain’s Courageous (Spencer Tracy) 5 – Robin Hood (with Errol Flynn) 4 – The Human Comedy (Micky Rooney) 3 – Old Man and the Sea (Spencer Tracey) 2 – Magnificent Seven (the one with Yul Brynner) 1 – Swiss Family Robinson     Best Series – The Chronicles of Narnia The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe...
BOYS – a summertime series

BOYS – a summertime series

Summer is here for many of us – just around the bend for others. Either way it’s time to get ready for those sweet, sandy, sun-kissed shoulders; sticky popsicle smiles; and long afternoons at the pool. But there’s more to summer than those iconic highlights. There are perfectly temperate days when kids dare complain, “But mama, I’m bored….” and sweltering afternoons when you’re all desperate for a movie on the couch in an air-conditioned house – specifically, a good movie that both entertains and teaches a virtuous lesson! Here in our home, we love movies that inspire boys to be good and masculine and adventurous. (The classic Disney adaptation of Swiss Family Robinson is my personal favorite.) Similarly, we want them to read tons of good books for the same reason. You can find a few of our favorite boy books here – and stay tuned, because I’ll be adding to the list in the summer days ahead.   This will be an on-going summertime series simply titled: BOYS.     Get ready for our favorite recommendations: movies and music, books and board games too. We also love good bbq followed by lemon bars and lemon scones, chased down with a cool glass of lemonade. Since we have lemon trees all over our property, summertime means lots of these citrusy treats. Let me know if you have a favorite recipe I need to try.   I’ll also be sharing our two annual summertime challenges! Each summer I give my children the chance to earn money two different ways. First, a reading challenge, where they earn 25 cents per chapter. Secondly, a seriously strenuous workout regime where they have a list of fun...
Depression and Motherhood – The Mom Club Few Talk About

Depression and Motherhood – The Mom Club Few Talk About

Today it is my pleasure to introduce you to my friend, author and board certified clinical neuropsychologist, Dr. Michelle Bengtson. Recently, I asked Dr. Michelle if she’d be willing to write a message for my mom-friends who are currently struggling with depression. Some of you know a bit of my experience with depression, as I shared snippets of my own dark journey in chapter 18 of Triggers. And so it is with an insider’s perspective that I fully endorse Dr. Michelle’s new book, Hope Prevails, and appreciate her ongoing support for moms. I pray you find courage and companionship as you journey through the dark and into the light of healing and hope. For hope truly does prevail!   Depression and Motherhood a guest post by Dr. Michelle Bengtson   “No one understands,” she whispered, as she brushed her hair off her face and accepted my offer of a tissue to dry her tears that gently flowed down her face.   “Oh, I think more people understand than you realize. The problem is that people just don’t feel comfortable talking about it unless they know others understand. But I do understand—I’ve been where you are.” I explained.   “You have? But you always look so joyful, and put together!”   “I am now, for the most part, but I still have to do the work to stay here.” I paused for a moment, taking a sip of my iced-tea, letting that sink in for a moment before continuing. “But I’ve gone through depression a couple of times in my life. I wouldn’t wish it on anyone. It was very dark. But each...

Do you feel you’ve lost yourself to motherhood?

When I wrote LIFE CREATIVE: INSPIRATION FOR TODAY’S RENAISSANCE MOM, with my dear friend Kelli Stuart, we set out to encourage creative women who feel they’ve lost themselves in this busy season of motherhood – painters and poets, writers and sculptures, actors, home decorators, seamstress’ and business owners, graphic designers, singers and bakers… Sweet friends, I know how deeply discouraging it can be to find yourself in the dark ages of motherhood – having lost touch with all the things you used to enjoy doing – all the things you used to enjoy about yourself!   (photo credit: Ruth Simons)   When moms lose themselves to motherhood, they tend to lose their tempers too. Like they have to fight to be heard.  But I hear you. When the dream come true of motherhood intersects all the other dreams in a woman’s life, it’s common to feel lost for a season. But you’re not lost – and neither are your gifts. God did a wonderful job when He created you in his delightfully creative image… and then gave you children. Though there is much sacrifice in this season, He is still the God who made you cleaver and creative, and cast those dreams into your heart. Think of each talent as a seed lying dormant beneath the earth. When springtime comes again, and it will come, and the sun warms the soil of your life, tender shoots will appear once more. A reawakening – A rebirth – A renaissance.     Until that time, it is our hope that you discover ways to fit pieces of your creative life into the everyday, ordinary moments of motherhood. The birthday...