Patina – A poem about marriage and classic cars

Patina – A poem about marriage and classic cars

  Matty B, that’s what we call him. The other day I was penning a letter to his father and wrote, “Your son’s a good dad… but he’s a wonderful husband.” I don’t know what he’ll think about that, but it’s what I mean. Parenting is hard, but marriage, for us, somehow just came naturally. 16 years ago, right about now, we were planning a wedding without really knowing each other at all. We didn’t have time for that, living long-distance, eager to get started. So we planned a wedding in 11 weeks, 1,600 miles apart. One day on the phone (a phone that plugged into the wall,) he asked me if it was crazy what we were doing… getting married without really knowing one another. And I said, “Not any crazier than what most of our grandparents did when they met and married and made the commitment to love each other till death parted them. I’m sure there will be things about you that will be hard, but I’m going to marry all of you.” And I did, after less than a dozen dates. One of the many things I didn’t know was how much this Texan loved classic cars, or how my home state of California would suit him so well. Or what a good dad he would be to our three sons… or what a wonderful husband he’d be to me.   Patina by Wendy Speake   Rambling down the asphalt toward home, the boys hear him coming – whoop and holler feel him coming. The rumble of a V-8.   Round the last bend and...
Salvation – Day 24 – Holiday Haiku

Salvation – Day 24 – Holiday Haiku

“She will bear a Son; and you shall call His name Jesus,  for He will save His people from their sins.” (Matthew 1:21)   And isn’t that the heart of the holiday? A Savior, born to die, to save us from the sins that we’ve committed: the ultimate scapegoat, the eternal passover lamb. I’ve always said that Christmas is about His death and resurrection as much as His birth. Without Easter Sunday, Christmas would be just another birthday. If you have made it through advent, celebrating the tinsel and the cookies and the elf on the shelf, but somehow not yet understood the incredible love of God –  that He would send His Son to earth to redeem you from all your sin-stained aches and pains – then I pray you have the eyes to see, the ears to hear, and the mind to perceive that He came for you. He left the glory throne of Heaven to chase you down in your self-suficient pride and woo you to salvation. Salvation. Dear friend, there is nothing on earth that you can do to clean yourself up, make yourself right and worthy to stand before God. The thoughts you think, the words you speak, the things you do, the motivations that lead you… can never be good enough, holy enough, to earn you access to heaven, and a right relationship with God. Salvation. You can’t earn it. But you can receive it. Salvation.  It is the greatest gift of all. But a gift is not a gift until it is received. This gift must be received by each man, woman, boy, or...
The Shepherds – Day 22 – a holiday haiku

The Shepherds – Day 22 – a holiday haiku

Welcome to Day 22 of our Holiday Haiku Challenge One of the joys of the season is reading again the account of the very first Christmas. The star, the wisemen, the angel chorus, and the shepherds keeping watch. Here is a fresh translation: An Event for Everyone (Luke 2:8-20, MSG) There were sheepherders camping in the neighborhood. They had set night watches over their sheep. Suddenly, God’s angel stood among them and God’s glory blazed around them. They were terrified. The angel said, “Don’t be afraid. I’m here to announce a great and joyful event that is meant for everybody, worldwide: A Savior has just been born in David’s town, a Savior who is Messiah and Master. This is what you’re to look for: a baby wrapped in a blanket and lying in a manger.” At once the angel was joined by a huge angelic choir singing God’s praises: Glory to God in the heavenly heights, Peace to all men and women on earth who please him. As the angel choir withdrew into heaven, the sheepherders talked it over. “Let’s get over to Bethlehem as fast as we can and see for ourselves what God has revealed to us.” They left, running, and found Mary and Joseph, and the baby lying in the manger. Seeing was believing. They told everyone they met what the angels had said about this child. All who heard the sheepherders were amazed. Mary kept all these things to herself, holding them dear, deep within herself. The sheepherders returned and let loose, glorifying and praising God for everything they had heard and seen. It turned...
Christmas Contentment – Day 21 – Holiday Haiku Challenge

Christmas Contentment – Day 21 – Holiday Haiku Challenge

Welcome to our 23rd day of the Holiday Haiku Challenge Today’s haiku challenge is to write 17 poetic syllables inspired by the often ellusive concept,   Christmas Contentment   My dear friend Amber Lia shares a personal story on the subject, then wraps it up at the end with a haiku. If you are inspired, leave your own #holidayhaiku in the comment thread below.   Christmas Contentment By Amber Lia   My husband thought it was a fun idea to put a pink feather boa and other gag gifts in my Christmas stocking that first year of marriage. Meanwhile, I thoughtfully wrapped all his favorite things. Ten years later, he still struggles with what to get me. Just today, I bought a gift from him, for me. He’ll wrap it. I’ll be happy and he won’t have to sleep on the couch. Just kidding. Sort of. Like you, I want Christmas to be less about “stuff” and more about rejoicing over the birth of our Savior, Jesus Christ, but even with my best intentions, I can become disappointed when holidays roll around. My prayer for 2015 was that I would hunger and thirst for righteousness more than anything else. I wanted to grow in contentment and truly feel like peace ruled my heart and mind this year, despite my circumstances. When December arrives, my contentment can be severely tested. My birthday is the day after Christmas and so many expectations come into play. I want to focus on what really matters—the many blessing that are already mine to treasure. I also want to humble myself, much like we see in Jesus’...
Emmanuel – Day 20 – holiday haiku

Emmanuel – Day 20 – holiday haiku

Welcome to Day 20 of our Holiday Haiku Challenge Today’s charge is to  write a haiku inspired by the Name of Christ,   Emmanuel   Emmanuel by Tara Ulrich   Emmanuel “God with us” is such a beautiful reminder that we are never alone. I love Eugune Peterson’s translation in the Message when he states “Jesus puts on flesh and blood and moves into the neighborhood.” Can you just picture Mary, Joseph, and baby Joseph moving in next to you? Would you bring them gifts fit for a king? Would you be oohing and aahing over this precious gift not even knowing that this infant was the promise Messiah? During this Advent season, may you welcome this promised Messiah into your heart, and extend Him out into your very own neighborhoods!   Tara Ulrich lives in Minot, ND where she serves at a Lutheran church as the Director of Home and Family Ministry. She is a rostered Diaconal Minister in the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America (Diaconal Ministers grew out of the Catholic understanding of deacons and deaconesses; Word and Service rather than Word and Sacrament). Prior to coming to Minot, she lived in Moorhead, MN and served at a church in Dilworth, MN for approximately 6 1/2 years. She is a graduate of the University of Mary (Bismarck, ND) and Wartburg Theological Seminary. She loves to spend time with her friends and family, reading, writing, and on the beautiful prairies of North Dakota. You can follow her at her blog Praying on the Prairie. You can find her on Twitter and Instagram.  ...